Today you are a little wiser,
truer to yourself,
and more confident and comfortable
than you ever were before.
You are stronger and deeper on the inside
because of the experiences
life has given you,
and softer around the edges
because of the things
you have let go of along the way.
You are clearer about your dreams
and your purpose,
and richer because of laughter,
love, and friendship
you have shared.
And the gifts you have gathered
just make you all the more wonderful.
A Special Blend of Thoughts and Wishes
It was “Ladies Night” last night in Los Angeles. Well, at least for the LA-Riettes, the NY Gotham Girls and their fans at the LA Derby Dolls bout in Historic Filipino Town (AKA Downtown LA.) From start to finish, it was a perfect night out. I thoroughly enjoyed every minute of it. Beginning with the feelings of anticipation and excitement of experiencing something new to me in my hometown to the satisfaction and joy of spending some much needed quality time with my family and friends. The evening turned out to be more than I had hoped for!
I knew I would have fun. I love trying new things. I wasn’t sure if Lito, Jonathan and Jennifer would like it. But I had a feeling they would. I was happy that no one was disappointed. Making plans for the four of us to go out on the town isn’t easy. Our schedules swirl around the activities and social lives of our teen and tween children as well as our individual commitments and interests. The plans were laid so far in advance, I wasn’t sure if that was a good or bad thing. Any one of us might have had to drop out. Making arrangements for all the kids in order for us to be someplace on time is a bit of a challenge as well. And money is always an issue. It’s never fun going out with empty wallets. The weather forecast was not on our side. Not just heavy rain and extreme cold, but snow and hail were expected! Fear of the unknown always sets in for me when trying something new. What was it going to be like? What should I wear? How long will it take to get there? Knowing my way around the city, I had an idea of where the Doll House was, but I am not very familiar with that part of town. Was it safe? Besides watching Roller Derby on TV with my Nana over 30 years ago – I knew nothing about it! It truly was an adventure.
Thanks to our long time friends come Facebook buddies, Dani and Petra, I accepted an open invitation to join a large group organized by Dani to get VIP seats in a reserved section to see the L.A. Derby Dolls All Star Ri-ettes take on New York’s Gotham Girls Roller Derby at The Doll House on February 26, 2011. Lito thought it would be fun and we invited my brother and sister-in-law, @Jennifer-Jonathan, who were as excited as we were to check this out. Navigating the traffic from the Valley and arriving a tad late, we found a packed venue with not a parking space in sight. After unsuccessfully trying to bribe the gate security bouncer dude to let me park in the LAPD reserved spot – my very “live by the rules” husband suggested parking in the strip mall parking lot across the street. I parked right under a sign that said “No LA Derby Dolls Parking.” I was certain my Jeep would be towed away and I’d be stuck in the rain with the first three people I would call in such a disaster! Then, we broke another big no-no in Lito’s book. . . we jay-walked! I couldn’t believe it! The first time in 27 years knowing him, he didn’t make me walk the extra block to the light to cross the street! At this point, I knew Lito was as excited as I was to get in and see the Roller Derby! This was going to be fun! My husband was being a reckless bad-boy!
Walking up to the venue, we could hear the loud cheers and feel the energy that was rocking the building as the crowd went wild. The first quarter had begun as we made our way to the only open reserved seats in the arena. Dani and Petra and their crew were all seated and watching the match and had saved the best seats for us. Second row, center of the action, on the aisle! Unbelievable! My sports enthusiast brother was in Heaven! I was happy to be able to sit down as I noticed our seats in the bleachers were in the one section that actually had seats. Yes folks, almost the entire arena of fans were standing for the entire 3-hour event. And the place was full!
One of the most impressive elements of the experience for me was the entertaining announcers. Knowing very little about the sport, I felt comfortable with their explanations of the super fast action and immense knowledge of all the players. Evil E and Blaine Capatch, with their radio-voices, timing, humor and expertise made it fun to pay attention and helped to make it a very enjoyable game to watch.
The warehouse building venue was pumped full of energy, clean, organized, well managed and every bit as professional as the likes of the Staples Center or Dodger Stadium. Only much smaller and run entirely by volunteers! The lighting, big screens, music, sound, ticket line, seating, security, even the food, drink and swag vendors were all top notch. I enjoyed my Hot-dog-on-a-stick and canned Tecate beer with fresh lime almost as much as a Dodger Dog and large Miller Lite or Garlic Fries and Hefeweizen from the “gourmet grille” at the large stadiums. Especially satisfying was the fair prices of the food, drinks and merchandise. You actually got what you paid for!
Everyone was friendly and nice. The players volunteer at the ticket and merchandise counters and you could tell how grateful they were to cater to the masses. I never experienced anything like that before. Everyone who worked there seemed as happy and excited to be there as I was. The fans of the LA Derby Dolls were awesome! There were definitely some die hard fans there amongst the friends and family of the players, trendy LA club types, and thrill-seekers like me. It was the place to be! Popular enough to be smooth and precise, yet still fresh enough to be edgy and cool. It definitely was a party atmosphere. Many fans were devoted to the visiting team from New York. The sign waving, team T-shirt wearing, roller derby enthusiasts cheered on their favorite players from both coasts.
The competition was tight. The score was close at times. The visiting team had never competed on a banked rink, but you would never have known that. They were tough to beat, but the home all-star team, the LA-Riettes whipped them. These girls are hot athletes! They skate fast and hard. It’s a brutal physical sport. More than half the team was in the penalty box for most of the bout. Two players were kicked out of the game for too many penalties! The refs worked hard. With names like Charlie Frown, Roger Assaultrey, and Gia De Los Muertos – there was no messing with them. The “Game Executioner,” Hurtin’ Ernie took no pains to stop the action. The ladies weren’t out to hurt each other, but the blockers, blocked and the jammers jammed! Getting elbowed and knocked down, even hurled over other skaters, is part of the game. It was very exciting to watch. Every time a player went down, she got up smiling and waving to the fans. Each bruise was worn with pride like true gladiators, taking part as much for the love of winning as for the pure enjoyment of the applause and cheers.
Chargin’ Tina, Iron Maiven, Cheapskate, Donna Matrix, Amber Alert, Roxy Cotton, Gori Spelling and Regulate-Her rocked the house! They were girls, they were women, ladies, tough chicks, true athletes with power and a mighty spirit. On wheels!
The experience was everything a perfect night out should be. Enhanced by being with great company, attending an entertaining and enjoyable event, and enjoying a flawless execution (My bad-boy husband did end up moving the Jeep at half-time) I am savoring the memories, completely pleased with the adventure of trying something new and different. Like a teenager after a first concert, I happily still wear my yellow bus neon green wristband with pride. I am now officially a Roller Derby Queen!
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Here is the story on the new tattoo:
I have been wanting another tattoo for years. I have been wanting a sun/moon since I got my first tat. My god-daughter, who is an artist, was going to do the design for me. She once gave me a watercolor of a sun and moon that I love.
When I went to New Mexico a few years ago, I found an ornament in a gift shop that reminded me of the general idea I had in mind for a tattoo. When I got back from that trip, I made some drawings. It seemed like I never had the money when I had the desire to have it done.
Recently, I was hanging out with a close friend and I asked him what his plans were for Valentine’s Day. He said he had some plans coming up, and he told me that he is planning to get a big tattoo of a Celtic cross on his back! I told him about how I have been wanting to gt another tattoo for at least 5 years. He encouraged me to just do it. Later he told me that “you never know about tomorrow, and have no regrets.”
So, when I came across the drawing I had made of the tattoo that I have been wanting, I mentioned it to Lito when he took me out to dinner for Valentine’s Day. I told him that I really wanted to get it done. He said he was going to get me a new canvass top for my Jeep and he would also like for me to have the tattoo, but he couldn’t do both. I decided on the tattoo – I know if I don’t do it now, it could be years before I have the chance again. And we will have to get the new top for the Jeep anyway by next Fall.
Lito and I went into the tattoo place on Devonshire, next to Les Sisters, and I really liked it there. We got to talking to one of the artists and he looked at my drawing. He said he would work on it and he could do it Friday night. I went there on Thursday to check out the drawing and he finished it while we were talking. He is really good! He incorporated exactly what I wanted without me having to tell him, just by talking and getting to know me. He is a nice guy, very personable, extremely talented, easy to talk to and he really put me at ease.
The drawing came out better than I had imagined it! It’s exactly what I wanted.
When Lito first saw it, he said it looked like he and I. My brother asked if it was supposed to be Lito and I. But, it isn’t supposed to be anyone I know – it is the spirit of the elements to me. The man and woman in everyone. The two parts of everyone. The night and day of all of us. My duality. My ability to be the person that each of my loved ones need me to be, and how it balances out and makes me whole.
So – why get it tattooed on my body? I just like it. It’s a fashion accessory. Like having my ears pierced or my nails manicured. It’s a practice that is centuries old and it appeals to me. I hope you like it, too!
Click here to see the slide show of me getting my tattoo: