An Enchanted Evening

Posted on September 3rd, 2012 by & filed under Be Inspired, Everything Miz Meliz

I’ve been meeting a lot of angels lately!  Kindred spirits who come and sit next to me, we get to talking and before I know it we have an instant bond, we are in to the same thing, we have a similar purpose. And in a crowded room there is no reason we would ever talk or meet or even be introduced, but as fate would have it, I find myself seated next to an accomplished author, an aspiring poet, a fellow adventuress. It never happened to me as frequently or as obviously in the past as it has been happening lately.

Have you ever asked for a sign from God that you are doing the right thing?  Please Lord, show me the way!  This is how He answers me. It’s as though I am walking my path and the light posts along the way are turning on and everything is brightly lit ahead of me. I can walk on without worry because I know it is a safe route. I know I am being supported. I will not walk alone. Even though my friends and family may not understand what I am doing and even though I didn’t know anyone else personally who has done what I want to do, I do not walk alone.

It is not that I am lacking the confidence to do it. I am not afraid to turn the corner on a dimly lit path, but for some reason the lights are being turned on. It is as if I am being pulled in that direction, lead actually. It feels so right and I want it so much. I have never felt this level of confidence and self assuredness before. I can do this. I am doing it. My vision is coming true. I am making it happen.

This weekend I attended a Masquerade Ball.  I planned to write about it.  It was a 50th birthday celebration of a friend who I recently met through my son.  It was quite magical.  I enjoy a dress up party and having been an event designer, I looked forward to this for the mere joy of attending a well executed party and I hoped it would be.  It far exceeded my expectations!  It was completely enjoyable and lots of fun.  There was amazing food and drink.  The venue and service was exquisite.  The guests were lively and genuinely nice.  The entertainment was perfectly planned, in sync, modest, and served the purpose of highlighting the life of the guest of honor without going over the top.  It truly was magical.  

At the Masquerade Ball

It was magical for me in a very special way.  I had been working on writing my book this weekend.  I am turning the outline of my Life Balance Workshop into an ebook.  Even though I have multiple writing projects currently in the works, I thought I would give the Kindle ebook upload a try with this idea first.  That way, I can have it in time for the Spa Retreat that I am speaking at in October.  (That I am typing these words in reference to my own life is HUGE and very magical!  I can hardly believe it!) 

I am loving the experience of piecing my book together and cannot wait to get it finished so I can get it online, and I relished having a three day weekend to work on it.  Yet, I found myself spending the day at an auto dealership  and taking care of important family business and did not have a chance to get back to it before needing to get ready for the party.  I was trying not to have any really groundbreaking thoughts about the book so I could enjoy the party, hopefully you get what I mean by that!  I really wanted to enjoy myself and be mindful of the moment at hand.  I took lots of pictures and I spoke to everyone at the table.  I was trying hard not to talk about the writing.  I was just being a great mom and wife and enjoying the fantastic cocktails and hors d’oeuvres, when  I began talking to the lady seated next to me.  Guess what!  She is an author, who has around forty books published on Amazon for Kindle!  She was nice enough to tell me to contact her if I had any questions.  We really connected and it was over the top coincidence that we met because she is in my genre and we have similar interests!  When she began to tell me the topics that she has written about, it was as though she was reading the list of topics that I write about!  Spirituality, self development, life, love.

Author, Elizabeth Skoglund with her grand daughter and namesake.

I used to be the person at a table of strangers who did not speak unless spoken to.  How many amazing people did I miss connecting with all those years that I was so self absorbed, so worried about making the right impression, concerned about exposing myself as imperfect, less than, not accomplished, under-educated, and so on?  What was my problem?  I was insecure.  Immature.  Inadequate.  No more.  No way!

I love to hear people’s stories and I love that I can Google most people and find out more about them!!  Every outing is an adventure when I know that if I open the door and ask to enter, people will invite me in.  I have learned so many wonderful things when given that opportunity.  I am so grateful for

that gift.  I am so amazed that the angels will talk to me!

Here is a challenge for you, next time you are at a party and sit next to someone you have never met – really talk to them.  They could be there to guide you!  They could be the sign you asked for.

Miz Meliz on the way to the ball

On the way to the ball, I should have known it would be an enchanted evening!

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14 responses to “An Enchanted Evening”

  1. […] Would you like to read about another time I sat next to an angel?  http://mizmeliz.com/2012/09/03/an-enchanted-evening/ […]

  2. cristina says:

    I’ve always wanted to go to a Masquerade ball and dress up with my mask! It looks like you had a lot of fun! Ooo, and good idea Alejandra! Maybe I should organize my own too! lol.

  3. Alejandra says:

    I want to go to a masquerade party! Maybe I will organize my own. LOL

  4. I am so happy that you took the opportunity to connect with other people at the masquerade party! You never know how the person that crosses your path can help you connect your own dots in your journey.

  5. Maria says:

    The ball looks like so much fun. I truly think that talking is so underrated. Talking about what is presented to us helps us overcome. Hope to see you soon!

  6. I want a mask!! Thanks for sharing 🙂

  7. Ann says:

    A masquerade ball sounds like so much fun! What a neat idea. What kind of car did you end up getting?

  8. What a great weekend! I have never been to a masquerade ball before, something new in my bucket list!

  9. What a lovely post! I am a firm believer in looking for signs along the path toward growth and opportunity. Thank you for sharing!

  10. Yeny Flores says:

    The masquerade ball seem so much fun! Dressing up and the mystery of who’s behind the mask. That’s awesome!

  11. I’ve never been to a masquerade ball before. It looks so fun. And great for you that you are coming out of your shell and meeting interesting people.

  12. bohemianbabushka says:

    This post spoke to me on many levels. We truly do have to overcome our limitations to connect with others- in order to find ourselves, and to find we’re not alone in our views/interests. Amazing how a “non auditory” platform such as blogging can make one become vocal verdad?

    Continued success and I hope to be in the audience for your spa charla. BB2U

    • MizMeliz says:

      Yes! I always perceived bloggers and authors to be introverted, but it has opened up my world and enabled me to share my views, given me a voice and has empowered me to ask questions. See you in Santa Cruz!!

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